Thursday 29 June 2017

Of Being Confident

I received a comment from one of my post by Anonymous.

Why use social media to air out what's inside you? If you really are that person who is confident and was raised the "right way" by your parents then you will go directly to that person rather than doing these stuffs. Is this how thet raised you?? Never question someone else's mother because you don't know ANYTHING on how a person was raised not unless it was you.

Stop pointing finger as three other are poiting at you.
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She was reprimanding me as to why I was airing what I felt in social medias. It is not the question of being confident.

And I never point finger. I point all my ten fingers and ten toes. As I have been directly affected by the situation. 

I went to a counselor few weeks ago, and I bring with me all the materials (her messages, my fiance's messages, her ex-boyfriend messages, her Facebook posts, her Instagram posts, her ex-boyfriend Instagram posts. Even the pictures. Even my medical certificate.

What happened to me is a nightmare! True, my fiance admitted that he became close with a certain woman but he told me that never once in his mind that he dreamed that he wants to be with her. He became closed to her because he felt lonely and wants somebody to talk to. He didn't tell me this before because he doesn't want to worry me. This I understand. And I accept. 

What I can't accept is that the woman has the GALL to post pictures of my fiance on her Instagram account and stories when my fiance didn't publicly acknowledge her.

From what I gleaned while talking to various people residing in Canada (I have messages of this conversations), is that she has a friendly and sweet tone in her voice. But two particular person (not my fiance) told me that they knew for instance that the woman has a manipulative behavior.

To the woman who has been emotionally and mentally tortured by the sidechicks. This is my advice to you.

Do not give up. If your boyfriend, fiance, or husband tells you they love you. And beg you to never gave them up. Then don't. Hold on to what you believe was yours.

Those women can make advances all they want but in the end your man won't choose them because they were the kind of women that are easy.

Assuming and Manipulating

This WOMAN has no right to ask my fiance about his international calls. The nerve! Kapal ng mukha. FYI He message my mother and his father
Dummy account that was sent to me (preferably done by the WOMAN)