Thursday 30 January 2014

Celebrating Chinese New Year 2014

The Chinese New Year is rich with myths and traditions that has been passed through the years.

Here are some of the practices that you can follow during the 15 days celebration (Chinese New year begins on the first day of the Lunar Calendar):

  1. Get a haircut
  2. Clean the house - Before the New Year arrives, the Chinese consider it very important to give the house a thorough cleaning, sweeping away any bad luck that may have accumulated over the past year. (Don't clean for the first few days of the New Year - if you do any sweeping during this time, you risk sweeping away your good luck.)
  3. Offer a Sacrifice to the Kitchen God - Many families have a poster of the Kitchen God in their kitchen. The custom is to offer a ceremonial sacrifice to the Kitchen God, to make sure that he gives a good report on the family's behavior when he returns to heaven. Sticky Cake (Nian Gao) is popular, or children may rub honey on him.
  4. Go shopping for the followings:
    • Chinese New Year food: dumplings An important tradition on New Year's Eve is for families to gather together and spend the evening preparing Chinese dumplings (Jiaozi). According to Chinese Culture Guide Jun Shan, it is common to hide a coin in one of the dumplings. Whoever gets the dumpling with the coin will supposedly have good luck in the coming year.), Tikoy (sign for unity), White fish (symbolizes wealth), chiken (good luck)
    • Clothes
    • Gifts - gifts to avoid are clock (symbolizes time is running out), handkerchief (symbolizes a farewell greeting), towel (usually given out at funeral), umbrella (symbolizes end of friendship), sharp objects (sever a relationship), Gifts in set of four (四 (, four) sounds like 死 (, death)), shoes-particularly straw sandals  (ending friendship or break up), anything in black or white.
  5. Wear New Clothes - some people still follow the more traditional Chinese clothing called 旗袍 (qipao) but many opt to wear lucky red underwear.
  6. Worship Ancestor - go to temple and offer fruits, dates, and candied peanuts. Also, burned stick of incense and stacks of paper money.
  7. Give 紅包 (Red Envelope) - married couple gives red envelopes to unmarried adults and kids.
  8. Launch Fireworks -  it is believed that more fireworks and noise equals more luck.
  9. Eat a big family meal - dumplings (wealth), fish (it must be good to leave extra fish on the plate), Hard Liquor (longevity), chicken (good luck)
  10. Candies are thrown away on the street to attract prosperity
  11. Prepare pansit (longevity), use incense (to purify the whole house), coins (wealth), rice in a bowl with rolled paper money (wealth prosperity)
  12. Prepare a Tray of Togetherness - This is a circular or octagon-shaped tray with eight compartments, each containing symbolic foods such as lotus seeds and lychee nuts, that provides a sweet beginning to the New Year.




Chinese New Year Decorations:
  1. Couplets or 春联 (Chun Lian) - usually red in color. However if there is a deceased relatives one must use white paper for the first year, green paper in the second, and yellow in the third.
    • Chun Lian for fu and Chun are often hang upside down
    • Common characters in Chun Lian
  2. Kitchen God
  3. Wood Block Print - called door gods, which are pasted on the gates at Chinese New Year to protect home.
And always remember to pronounce Kiong Hee Huat Tsai which a proper way to greet than Kung Hei Fat Choi (more commercialized). 恭喜發財!

Tuesday 21 January 2014

Surviving Long Distance

In a few more months, Labsie and I will enter into a long distance relationship, should his application be approved. He has been under study for work in Victoria, Canada at Tim Hortons for the duration of 2 years. So, in order to prepare myself for the temporary separation, I while away my time on the internet, browsing articles about long distance relationship. 

Manila is 16 hours ahead of Victoria, Canada, so that means when its 12 a.m. (midnight) in Victoria, its 4 p.m. in Manila. So our time difference will be a huge factor in our relationship. However, due to today's technology, keeping in touch won't be a problem. Application such as Skype and We Chat will play a huge role in our lives. Also, social networking like Facebook will keep me up-to-date with what's happening in his life, provided that he will update his Facebook now and again. There is also an android application for couples, which is COUPLE.

People in long distance relationships can have a hard time staying connected, because couples are limited in what they can do together. Many are limited to phone calls, emails, instant messaging, and texting which can become a bit humdrum over time, if you ask me. It is important to keep things interesting. 

Here is a list of things you can do with your boyfriend/girlfriend as well as things you can do for them from a distance. Source: Loving from a Distance


  1. Get a Webcam
    • For Skype! or Gmail video Chat
  2. Learn new things about each other with 1000 questions
    • When it's one of those days where you guys just can't think of anything to talk about, try asking questions. Here's a good site with 100 questions to ask your love.
    • For even more questions check out 1000 questions for couples.
  3. Say Cheese!
    • Take picture occasionally so that he could see you. You may send it through email or through Facebook.
  4. Listen to music together
    • Why not listen to music as you chat?
  5. Make Something
    • Homemade gifts are the best! Not only will your boyfriend/girlfriend love that you put in the effort and time to make something for them, but you can also have a lot of fun making something. 
  6. Watch them walk by
  7. Love letters
  8. Send them a text
  9. Write a letter on love day
  10. Make a card
  11. Send your scent
    • The power of scent on our memories and emotions is amazing.
  12. Write a poem
  13. Keepsake boxes
  14. Make conversation
    • Many people have written questions to us and I'd say that one of the more common complaints we hear is that their conversations get dull over time. If you find yourself having a lot of silent pauses and don't know what to say, here's a list of conversation starters you might have fun with: Conversation Starters... What If?
  15. Send a message in a bottle
    • Okay, so here's what you do...
      • Write an amazing message.
      • Get a plastic bottle.
      • Put your message in the bottle.
      • Put any other little trinkets you can fit in the bottle or even fill the bottle with pretty shredded paper or easter grass.
      • Cap your bottle and apply your "to" and "from" addresses to the side of the bottle.
      • Go to the post office to determine the appropriate amount of postage to stick on.
      • Mail it!
  16. Record a story
  17. Make a countdown
  18. Set goals for each other
    • This simple idea is a great way to show you love the other person and helps you cope with separation! 
  19. Track the weather
  20. Create a timeline and predict your future together
    • An awesome website that lets you create timelines online is TimeToast.com It also lets you share your timeline by providing an embed link that you can publish anywhere online. If you want to print your timeline, make sure your javascript is turned off when you visit your timeline.
  21. Exercise together
  22. Share a virtual bulletin board
Have fun!